PASTORAL CARE INTERVENTION IN TEENAGE PREGNANCY: ADDRESSING PARENTAL REACTION AND HOLISTIC SUPPORT

Okanlawon Ezekiel Ayinde, M.TH Student,

Pastoral Care and Counselling, NBTS Ogbomoso.

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Ajala Kehinde Oloyede,  M.TH Student,

Pastoral Care and Counselling, NBTS Ogbomoso.

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ABSTRACT

This paper examines the significant global issue of teenage pregnancy and its profound social, emotional, and spiritual implications, particularly within Christian communities where it often triggers intense emotional responses from teenagers and their families. The paper emphasizes the crucial role of pastoral care in supporting affected teenagers and their families by advocating for compassionate, biblically grounded interventions. It explores the common causes and effects of teenage pregnancy and provides practical crisis intervention strategies to equip church pastors in offering holistic and ongoing care. The paper recommends that pastors, in their role as caregivers, encourage parents to demonstrate love towards their children and foster hope, which is essential for promoting healing and strengthening the family’s relationship with God.

Keywords: Teenage pregnancy, Pastoral Care Intervention.

Word Count: 117 words

INTRODUCTION

Life presents numerous challenges at different stages, and teenage pregnancy is a particularly sensitive crisis that affects not only the teenager but also her family. It often brings emotional pain, guilt, and familial discord. Effective pastoral care is essential to mitigate these consequences by providing emotional healing, promoting reconciliation between the teenager and her parents, and guiding the family toward acceptance and hope. According to Russell (1963), social workers have observed that pregnant teenagers often exhibit hostility toward their mothers and are reluctant to disclose their condition due to fear and shame. This calls for an intentional pastoral approach that encourages reconciliation and emotional restoration. Teenage pregnancy is a global phenomenon with known causes and severe consequences (World Health Organization, 2023). In Christian settings, however, the rate of unwanted pregnancies among Christian teenagers is particularly alarming.

Gregston (2018) further emphasizes that factors such as poor parenting, parental divorce, growing up in a blended family, the loss of a parent, and crises that disrupt a teenager’s life, along with economic hardship, clothing choices, and parental poverty, contribute to the rising incidence of teenage pregnancy. An example from the writer’s own community involves a young girl who, due to her negligence, strayed from her path and entered a relationship with a man who initially promised to marry her but later denied responsibility after impregnating her. The girl’s mother reported the situation to the writer, who, acting as her pastor, provided pastoral counseling based on biblical principles. Today, the girl’s child has grown up, and she has returned to school to continue her studies. This personal experience reinforces the importance of pastoral care in addressing such crises. This paper will explore the conceptual understanding of teenage pregnancy, the overview of pastoral care intervention, the biblical foundation that opposes premarital sex, and immediate and subsequent intervention strategies aimed at mitigating teenage pregnancy within the family context.

Conceptual Clarification of Teenage Pregnancy

Teenagers, defined as individuals aged 13 to 19, experience a transitional phase marked by identity exploration and emotional turbulence (Adeyanju, 2021). During this period, the desire for peer acceptance and independence often leads to risky behaviors, including premarital sexual activity. Teenage pregnancy refers to unintended pregnancies occurring in adolescent girls under the age of 20 (Oluwoye, 2012). These pregnancies are often accompanied by denial from the male partner, fear, and social stigma. Ipadeola (2020) links adolescent sexual behavior to a rise in unintended pregnancies, while Adeoye (as cited in Oluwoye, 2012) highlights peer and societal influence as critical contributing factors. Parental reactions can significantly shape the trajectory of the pregnant teenager’s future. Whitehead (2006) advises that parents respond with empathy rather than rejection, reinforcing the need for pastoral guidance during such crises.

Teenage pregnancy is also on the increasing rate in this present time. Adeoye as cited by Oluwoye (2012, 5) defines teenage pregnancy as an unintended pregnancy at adolescence or any pregnancy in which the mother is not yet twenty when the baby is born. Teenage pregnancy is always associated with denial in most cases by the accused male due to underage and fear of sustaining the family. Ipadeola (2020, 24) asserted that adolescent sexual behavior usually leads to an unwanted pregnancy. While Adeoye also argued that peer group and social influence are factors responsible for teenage pregnancy (179). Also, Jay kesler and Ronald (1949), in their expression, opined that the paradoxical statement that urges is natural, normal and good for every developing teenager does not give an automatic ticket to the teens to get them involved in sexual intercourse. Jay stress further that, the fact that teens are having sexual urges is not a yard-stick to indulge in sexual intercourse at their early stage of life (12).

Whitehead (506) asserted that whenever a teenager comes home and reported her pregnancy or involvement in a pregnancy, it is important for the parents to remain calm and empathetic as an approach to help the affected teenager out of the challenges. The suggestion, according to Jay and Ronald assertion, is that acceptance and love showing to the teen pregnant is very important because they do not need isolation from church, friends and family. Likewise rejection is not a solution. This commendable because it affirms the absence of cohesion in a child while raising young adult and this will make them have the spirit of self-reliance in the future (Aremu2021:193).

Causes of Teenage Pregnancy

Gregston (2018) emphasizes that modern teenagers face unprecedented societal pressures, compounded by a culture that often glamorizes early sexual activity. Key contributing causes include: Parental divorce or death, economic hardship, exposure to pornography and inappropriate media, poor supervision and inadequate sex education, peer influence and the desire for acceptance, Lack of spiritual and emotional guidance. These issues create a vacuum that teenagers may attempt to fill through premature relationships, often leading to pregnancy. In addition, teenage pregnancy is a multifaceted issue influenced by various interrelated social, cultural, economic, and personal factors. Understanding these causes is crucial in designing effective strategies to reduce adolescent pregnancies and support affected teenagers. The root causes are often embedded in systemic inequalities and gaps in education, access to healthcare, and social support.

One of the primary causes contributing to teenage pregnancies is lack of comprehensive sex education. Many adolescents do not receive accurate and age-appropriate information about sexual health, contraception, and reproductive rights. Studies have shown that abstinence-only education is less effective at delaying sexual initiation and preventing unplanned pregnancies compared to comprehensive sex education (Kohler, Manhart, & Lafferty, 2008). Without proper knowledge, teenagers are more likely to engage in risky sexual behaviors and underestimate the consequences of unprotected sex.

Another significant cause is peer pressure and early sexual activity. Teenagers are often influenced by their peers’ behaviors and social expectations. In some cases, teenagers feel compelled to engage in sexual activity to fit in or gain acceptance. The early onset of sexual activity increases the chances of pregnancy, especially when contraception is not used consistently or correctly (Boonstra, 2011). Similarly, family structure and parental involvement also play a crucial role in influencing teenage pregnancy rates. Teenagers from single-parent households or families with limited supervision are at greater risk. Research indicates that low levels of parental monitoring and communication about sex are associated with higher rates of adolescent pregnancy (Miller, Benson, & Galbraith, 2001). Furthermore, a lack of emotional support and parental guidance can lead teenagers to seek affection and validation through sexual relationships.

Furthermore, socioeconomic status is another major contributor. Teenagers from low-income families are more likely to become pregnant due to limited access to healthcare, contraception, and education. Economic hardship may also lead adolescents to perceive fewer opportunities for the future, reducing their motivation to delay childbearing (Santelli et al., 2000). In some communities, teenage pregnancy may even be normalized or seen as a means of gaining adult status or financial support. In addition, cultural and societal norms can further reinforce early pregnancy. In certain contexts, early marriage and childbearing are socially accepted or even encouraged. Gender inequality and discrimination often restrict girls’ autonomy over their reproductive health and choices. This is particularly prevalent in developing countries, where early marriage and traditional roles for women are more common (UNFPA, 2022).